It has been always a matter of
great debate among men and women that who are the so called enemies of women.
The entire women flock will point out their fingers towards men. But I would
say, to a large extent women themselves are their biggest enemies. If we can
closely observe all those chaos, violence, rape cases and attempts, stories of
molestation, sex racketing, female trafficking, bad treatments, which are
happening against women, the major chuck of them are sponsored, caused and
invited by women themselves.
In all these circumstances either
there is a hand of a woman worked behind the curtain or the willingness of the
woman so to invite the particular trouble. Invariably, in every sex racket and
female trafficking case the main link will be a woman and woman who has fallen
victims of those incidents get other women to the same traps. Women themselves
know what are their strengths and weaknesses, so the women themselves tap the
weaknesses of other women in order to trap them.
Without the help of women, men
alone can’t cause all these troubles towards women. Women will go to any extent
and act as deadly poisonous. Weakness of a woman is their strength so she
employs her strength to trap other women. Anything goes against women normally
men associated with them are accused not the women work behind the scene. We have so many instances where women
themselves work behind the scene for the unpleasant incidents to occur.
The women who present their
nudity and exhibit obscene shots through online, visual and print media are
automatically causing sexual urges in men and men who come out watching the
particular video clip or picture sexually charged might end up raping a girl on
the street. So ultimately who caused the sexual urges in men, the women who appeared
naked in the scene never fall the victims of their action whereas an innocent
girl on the street.
Basic nature of women is to
attract and woo the men. Why can’t women dress up well? Why the women need to exhibit
their nudity and bodily parts that can sexually attract men towards them? It is
always men who dress up with modest apparels not the women. The biggest sin is
to be a cause for a sin rather than committing the sin itself.
Women always say we would wear
the sort of the costumes they wish to wear and what is the problem with men. As
a man I strongly feel that no men will have any issues in women being in
whatever attire they want to be, instead men would be enjoying their bodily
exhibition and no man would wish women to be in modest apparels (except for
hubbies, fathers and brothers in their dear ones’ case). The women flock should
understand that men enjoy the crazy costumes though the men act like ‘Moral Police’
asking the women to dress up the modest attire.
It is men who understand the
women better in all the respects. Being a woman, a woman has undergone all the hardships
of being brought up, living in a male dominant society, as she grows the bodily
changes that happen within her, her monthly menstrual cycle, pregnancy,
delivery, menopause and all that. When a woman, who has undergone all these, sees
other woman going through the same situations the former feels that I have
undergone all these so I know what it all means so she is neither sympathetic
nor empathetic towards the woman enduring all those situations.
During our bus and train journey
we have seen no woman offering a seat to a pregnant woman or a woman carrying
her little child instead man who sees this particular woman readily offers her
a seat. It is because having undergone all those situations and a woman sees
other woman in the same shoes, the former is neither sympathetic nor empathetic
towards the enduring woman whereas man who can’t have objective knowledge of
all these readily offers a seat because he has a subjective knowledge of what
it all means.
I too have discussed with a
couple of girls who are my close friends on the above topic they too have given
the testimony that it is men who treat them well not women. One of them told me
that if she enters in the women-compartment of the suburban train, the women in
the compartment won’t even offer a little space to stand so normally she boards
the common compartment where men give her space even to sit.
Before finding fault with men for
the pitiful conditions of women, women should learn that in all atrocities
against women either there is a hand of a woman working behind the curtain or
the willingness of the woman so to invite the particular trouble. So at the end
of the men are the ardent friends of women and it is women themselves are their
biggest enemies.
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