I feel that basically our psyche
is tuned to find the mistakes of others and not to appreciate the goodness in
them. The most easy and the thing that everyone does in his or her life is
finding fault with others and when it comes to finding fault with others, all
of us are proficient in it.
Appreciating the good things in
others is not that every one can do but it is only for those who have an open
mind and can think beyond the personal horizon. Thus, when it comes to applauding
for someone we fall short and our inferiority complex does not allow us to do
that. We find it very hard to appreciate the goodness in others, we feel that
if we take a step to appreciate the good in others, our ego gets hurt and we
become inferior to the person whom we are appreciating.
Even though a particular person
has done hundreds of good things for us and that has made us what we are today and
by mistake if something has gone wrong from his side in his attempt to do
something good for us; we would definitely forget the hundred good things that he
had done for us and project the one and only fault he has made by mistake which
would not have caused any of kind of damage whatsoever in our well being.
A few will be contented with just
finding the mistakes but there is another set of people who take a few more
steps in correcting the mistakes in others such are moral policing. These
people think they reason they are on this planet earth is to correct the
mistakes of others and the realization of their life lie in correcting the
mistakes of others. These people are the self proclaimed custodians of morality
and they think that their life-mission is to restore morality in the world.
In psychology there is a term
called projection, wherein people would project rather find their own mistakes
in others in order to cover up their particular mistakes. By nature, we are
good at tracking the mistakes though not the good deeds in various degrees. However,
for a few, their main activity would be finding the mistakes of others and they
feel that there are only the perfect beings ever existing on this planet earth.
God is the only perfect Being and
everyone else is created with limitations and imperfections and our virtue
should be seeing the goodness in others rather than the mistakes in them and
projecting them too much. With the given limitations and imperfections, we are
asked to work towards perfection that is next to the Perfect Being.
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