When it comes to have any kind of
alliances whether it be friendship, business or marriage, supposedly the most
important thing that we are looking for is the refined character of our partner
but the absurdity is that the character is seldom known to us and civilized character
is all the more important in the institution of marriage because marriage is a
life long commitment between two parties and refined character play a vital
role in the success of married life.
The most important thing that is
checked out in a guy or a girl before his or her marriage is his/her character but
the strange thing is that it always remains unknown. Just by the mere
appearance and bare minimum of interaction with the other would not be enough
for us to judge the character because in any given situation anyone would
behave well mannered.
As long as everything goes on in
a good note, life will go ahead without any kind of disturbance and our feeling
would be that people we have chosen would be perhaps the best person we could ever
get. However, the real metal of someone would be revealed only when his/her
life is encountered with the life realities and real life situations until then
everyone would behave civilized and mature.
In most of the cases the most
revealed factors like the appearance, employment and financial background of
the partner is given hyped importance and character of the partner is brushed
under the carpet. Even if one posses all those above qualities and does not
posses a refined character and well behavior, living together will be a great
chaos.
Failure to access the character
or the absence of the good character and manners make the marriage suffer and
couple who get into the institution of marriage would have the most difficult
time ahead which blocks them going ahead. This would bring the marriage into an
abrupt climax marking both the parties ceasing to have a living together.
The most important thing in any
individual is his or her refined character and good manners which can virtually
substitute all other qualities and can help us to possess rest of everything.
Now the question remains, how then we can access the character which remains
unknown. Some will have great authority to judge the character of others. With
the real cues and close observation of different modulations of character and
behavior, to an extent we can understand the pattern of character and behavior
of the other.
We should not allow the best to remain
unknown in stead we should bring out the best that was remaining unknown. The
beauty of the life are in knowing and experiencing the best and celebrating our
life.
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