The moment we are asked ‘not to do’ something somehow we all
would end up doing it otherwise we would not have made an attempt to do it at
all or perhaps not event thought of it. So negation always spreads a subliminal
message and calls for reverse action.
We have come across the write-ups
such as ‘Don’t Park Here’ and ‘Don’t put garbage here’ in the cities.
In both the cases, such a write up is put up because there is space to park the
vehicle and there is enough of space to dump the garbage. The board ‘Don’t Park Here’ is put up because
there is enough space to park the vehicles but the owner of the space or the
authority does not want anyone to park his or her vehicle in the particular
spot. Whereas people looking out for a space to park their vehicle seeing this
board end up parking there itself thus the board works as an indicator or a
sign board.
Perhaps if the board ‘Don’t Park Here’ is not put up in a
particular spot, people would not park their vehicles there at all. It is
spreading a subliminal message that there is a scope and there is space to park.
No one would put up a board ‘Don’t Park
Here’ where there is no space for parking. Therefore, negation always calls
for action, which makes us to do the reverse action which is not expected of us.
In our childhood, whenever we
were asked not to do something we have ended up doing the same therefore, negation
of an action opens up a chance how to do the particular action. We feel being
obliged to the guidelines, regulations and warnings is something bad and it is not
for the daring man not to perform it so we feel we should take the extra steps
to perform it though we are being told not to perform it.
A few people take it as matter of
pride and heroic act to surpass the ‘do not do this’ assertion and as a result
they perform without being aware of the consequences of the action could bring
about. People feel that ‘do not do this’ assertion challenges their potentials
and capabilities and if they abide by the assertion they feel they are
humiliated and their self esteem is at stake.
Negatively responding to the assertion
of ‘do not do this’ would always land us in troubles and always the assertions
are for the good and wellbeing of the society. Thus ‘do not do this’ simply
means ‘do not do this’ nothing more than that.
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