When a man, in his youth,
becomes prodigal and irresponsible, living a life totally against the wish of
his parents and societal commitments, as a last remedy, the parents from Indian
conservative society will decide to get him married to a girl. The parents believe
that once a girl comes to his life, he will become moral, modest and
responsible. The girl is believed to play vital and inspiring roles in his
life, giving an option either to perish completely or to come back to life as a
responsible person, learning his lessons in the hard ways.
Monday, June 27, 2016
Monday, May 16, 2016
It’s not 7, but only 6 sacraments for women in Catholic Church; Ordination being insinuated only for men
Catholic Church has always
been criticized for being patriarchal in nature, where women (nuns) hardly get any
role to play in its administrative positions. Catholic Church can satirically be
defined as; Church of the men, for the men and by the men, where men (priests)
enjoy all the powers and privileges. Church expects the women to play the role
of ‘Pious Women’ as narrated in the Holy Bible, remaining in prayers, contemplation,
obedience, and performing the designated domestic and social roles.
Friday, April 8, 2016
The ex-seminarian factor providing more weightage in marriage market???
Though there are dozens of parameters that are considered on high priority when it comes to arranged marriages, character gets precedence along with family background, educational qualification and profession of the bride-groom. The character is not so easily discernible and visible like the latter at a given point of time.
There are investigative techniques used by the girl's family to examine where the potential bridge-groom is coming from, about his family, his parents, siblings, educational background, financial stability, profession, designation and how much salary he draws. Their findings are based on facts and physical evidences, which are available right in front of them.
Wednesday, March 16, 2016
Falling short of 2 turns to complete quarter century in official girl-meetings
It has been perceived that arranged marriage is always a difficult affair compared to love marriage. For arranged marriage everything has to get meticulously arranged even bride and bridegroom, whereas in love marriage, with love everything gets automatically arranged.
In the current cultural, economical, social, religious, and political background, arranged marriage has been a very hot affair. Now the trend is love cum arranged marriage. In arranged marriage, the potential bridegroom has to do his home works, which include sending 'request' and 'like' on matrimonial sites based on the received and accepted requests and has to go to the girl's home for official girl-meeting. Mine had been a marathon girl-meeting spanning over two years, touching the number 23.
Monday, February 15, 2016
Family: - Truly a Heaven on earth
Family is the supreme abode
of all the virtues, perhaps love and mercy are the two virtues that decorate
all other virtues and make the house the best place to live in. Love and mercy
can be said as the two sides of one coin, which is complimenting each other and
without the other one can’t exist. At home, mother is the epitome of love and
mercy, out of her fragrance of love and mercy; the virtues are getting spread
in the family. The inculcation of all these virtues and values are happening
from the family in the early childhood of a person, and make a person, human
being with sympathy and empathy.
Tuesday, January 26, 2016
Solar - Saritha episodes – a chronicle believed to be have a plot and written in a context
It is said that nothing
happens in a vacuum, in order to occur something there should be clear
framework in a given time and space. Though my political inclination has been
for the ruling United Democratic Alliance (UDF), in the wake of series of Solar
– Saritha episodes, I, being a common man of the state, am forced to believe
that the whole solar scam centered on Saritha S. Nair is a chronicle that is
believed to be have a clear plot and written in the political context of the
state.
Thursday, December 17, 2015
"Don't be tensed" wish - keeps you tensed actually
Prior to major milestones in life like examination, final match, driving test or delivery, generally people wish their dear and near one with Best Wishes, Good Luck or Prayers to boost their morale so that they would achieve the target with ease.
But when it comes to such wishing Malayalis act very peculiar and that is deep there in their DNA. Instead of wishing Best Wishes, Good Luck or Prayers of the heart, typical Malayalis would say "Don't be tensed," and "Hope you are not scared."
Saturday, November 28, 2015
Terribly disappointed with the kind of service rendered by Christianweds matrimonial sites
Dear Christianweds officials,
Sub: An open letter to the officials of Christianweds matrimonial site
I was terribly disappointed with the kind of service rendered by Christianweds matrimonial sites.
I am Sanil Augustine, have recently registered with Christianweds matrimonial site with a profile Id,CWEKM3365 after the continuous persuasion, compulsion and colourful promises offered by the Christianweds official, Mr. Biju from Thodupuzha office. Mr. Biju over and again asserting that the Unique Selling Point (USP) of Christianweds unlike other matrimonial site is the Christianweds plays a role of a mediator between guy’s and girl’s family to align a marriage proposal. Having been convinced with what Mr. Biju told me, I registered with Christianweds matrimonial site.
Sunday, October 18, 2015
All the "Rights" leading children in the wrong direction??
To be a disciplined citizen could be everyone's right and to make them disciplined is the duty of their parents and teachers. But it seems that the laws of the land give so much loopholes for the children to escape from the punishments, which their parents and teachers impose on them for discipline in particular and for the society in general.
The irony with law is that the ones who need it the most never gets benefited from it, whereas the ones who should be punished by the same always escape it.
Friday, September 18, 2015
Culling stray dogs is a lesser evil compared to the agony humans have to undergo after being bitten by stray dog
In the wake of the series of dog bite incidents being reported in Kerala and innocent faces of the kids
being tarnished as an aftermath of dog bites, we should remember that we live
in a country, India, where capital punishment is in force and justifiable homicide is not a capital offence, then, why culling stray dog is the most debated topic of the
time?
The Constitution of India
provides Fundamental Rights under Chapter III, Article 21 guarantees Right to Protection
of Life and personal liberty. According to Section 302, 303 under Indian Penal
Code (IPC), a person is sentenced to death for committing murder. Why then a
dog that is a threat to humans can’t be culled? Any individual, who is a threat
as well as a nuisance to the life of human beings, is put behind bars, why then
all these street dogs are let free?
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