The above anecdote from Holy Bible is being contextualized
and rewritten in the today’s scenario where a good percentage of Bangalore
Malayali Christian girls are reliving the life of the Samaritan woman whom
Jesus confronts when she came to draw water from the well. The Holy Gospel according
to St. John Chapter 4, word-cycles from 1 to 40 narrate the story of Jesus and
the Samaritan woman.
A Samaritan woman came to draw water and she was having
discussion with Jesus on living water and their conversation went on and on meanwhile,
Jesus asked the Samaritan woman “Go, call your husband, and come back.” The
Woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in
saying, “I have no husband;’ for you
have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband.
I think, at least a good percentage of Bangalore Malayali
Christian girls would be in the same shoes of the Samaritan woman. The
Bangalore’s soothing culture of living relationship and cohabitation create a
world of fantasy and lust for the Malayali Christian girls who are immigrating
to the garden city for their higher studies and job. Lured with the comforts
and sexual pleasures, at least a few of them who are sexually hyper active live
a life that of the Samaritan woman. The sexually hyper active girls getting
into end number of relations with the same easy of changing a dress they change
their boyfriend.
Lured by hyper sexual urges and hysterical status, most of
them actually do not know what they are into really and how they are being
perceived by people in and around them. As it is said, familiarity breeds
contempt, an affair with a boy does not last long as they lose the affection
and sexual satisfaction from him. So they immediately go for a replacement. In
most of the cases, in their subjective understanding girls do not know what they
are up to and these girl need clinical treatment and counseling to bring them
back to normality. As any psychopath they also would not be aware of their
status nor accept the psychosomatic problem (hyper sexuality) of keep switching
and trying different boys in fixed intervals.
The girls who are hyper sexual and hyper active would not
find sexual satisfaction from a single boy so they would be switching and
trying different boys and these kinds of girls always need a guy around. To
speak it plainly, these kinds of girls who are after different dick suiting to
gratify their sexual urges need clinical treatment to bring them to normal
sexual life and society. If a few of them keep switching for their sexual
satisfaction and some of them would be hunting smart, good looking and
financially sound guys. When the girls learn that the other guy is smarter and
financially sound than the current one they just switch to the other guy.
A couple of such girls would defame the enter flock of
Bangalore Malayali Christian girls though all the girls are not so. For the
sexually hyper active girls it is a matter of great pride that they have had
sex with 5 or even more number of guys and when they are asked who is their
boyfriend they would fume not having anyone specifically to point out. It is
always easy for a girl to woo a man with her anatomy, bodily gestures and talks
compared to a man wooing a girl, so it is easy for the girl to get into
relationships. If girls are willing there would be guys to fall for them but
not vice versa.
In the wake of the unprecedented butchering of little kids
by young mothers to go with their boyfriend in Kerala substantiates the Samaritan
woman phenomenon. The ‘Samaritan woman’ phenomenon is there everywhere not exclusively in
Bangalore alone. It has been prevailing in every corner of the world and it does
not just exist in the Christian religion alone. This kind of Samaritan woman is
there everywhere.
The Christian guys migrated to the garden city is not entirely
different from those sexually hyper active girls and some of the guys go after
girls is like dogs are madly after the bitches in their ‘mating season’ (Kanni
Masam, September to October). Our society being patriarchal, guys going astray
and getting into series of relationship with girls is acceptable but not girls
though. It is always nice to have a discipline and modesty in sexual life for
both the parties. It is nice for the unmarried youngsters to remain immaculate.
There is a great disparity in calling a guy, flirt and
calling a girl, flirt. There exists great distinction though the same noun is
used to address both the parties because of the gender differences, stereotypical
notions and social stigma. So there is a great difference in addressing a guy
fucker (even if he actually goes around fucking) and calling a girl slut (even
if she sleeps with everyone) as well.
This is blog is the continuation of: Bangalore-Malayali girls carry a bad tag always - http://thadisan.blogspot.in/2013/02/bangalore-malayali-girls-carry-bad-tag.html
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Sorry to say...but dats not how they r....god knows wer did u get so much of inspiration to write up all dis....
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