We
have too many uncles and aunts, that means our parents were blessed with so
many siblings but when it comes to the preset nuclear family system there is
only one child for the parents, whether it is a boy or a girl. Population explosion,
economical and social status, financial condition force a family to go by the
slogan ‘Hum ek humem ek’ and as a result there is only one child is being
brought up by the parents.
There
is a saying, even if it is only single child he/she should be brought up with
enough of care and exposure to the real world out there (onnullelum
oolakk kondadichi valarathanam).
The new generation child is given extra layers of care and protection while he
is being brought up. Unlike the old times when parents had too many children to
love and care for, now the undivided love of the parents is being abundantly
bestowed upon the one and only child. Thinking that he is the only begotten and
he is the heir of the family, he is being provided with everything possible
even the things that are not literally affordable for his parents.
The
child who is over pampered are unequipped with his surroundings and realities
of life and when he comes out of the shell of his parental love and faces the
real life he would slowly begin to realize that the things he has to face are
entirely different from what he had seen in his childhood days. He will not be
able to handle the difficulties and struggles if anything is gone wrong. The
child is being brought with utmost care and not letting him know any struggles
and giving him everything he wants. Possibly, all his needs and demands are
met.
The
child is being sent to school like Choice where he lives in complete luxury, he
is given state-of-art facilities at the epicenter of comfort and luxury. Once
he comes out to the real world he is unequipped and he has not developed any
kind of risk managements both mental and physical and eventually would succumb
to the pressure and helplessness to cope with, he would end his life. The child
is being isolated from social realities and being brought up like broiler
chicken would serve no purpose for his own life as well as to the society.
Perhaps,
the child would not have learnt the basic lessons for his survival from his
schooling and the educational institution where he studied. The child would
have learnt some theoretical knowledge and not the skills to survive in the
modern world which is full of challenges and competition. Studying in international
schools and living in all comforts, which life can offer, would not equip him
to survive where he has to deal with people of different temperaments.
The
poor parenting is to be blamed for the increasing number of suicide rate among
children, while a child is being brought up he should be cared and loved enough
at the same time he should be exposed to the real world, the hardships and
agonies of life, only then, when he stands in his own foot would be able to
face everything in life. He would not be wholly blamed for his fallen-state
instead his parents as well.
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